Reader Question:

what exactly do i actually do if each of us are interested in one another and some weeks pass-by and that I have not seen him at the office? He plays hockey on Wednesday nights at 10 p.m.

You think i ought to go indeed there by myself and discover if he’s available to spend time after? I prefer him a whole lot, and I don’t believe he understands it.

-Kathleen J. (Illinois)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s response:

How have you any idea that both of you are curious about one another if you’re uncertain the guy understands that you like him? I would say you ought to develop one « manipulated chance meeting. » Most probably, flirtatious and look. If the guy doesn’t request your quantity, the ball’s within his judge. Don’t become his stalker.

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