Reader Question:

Hi David,

I am 60 years old, very healthier, really productive, and a tremendously great lady. I’d an extremely cold matrimony for more than three decades. I joined whenever I separated, had a few dates (these were horrible), immediately after which one popped up. We have dated him don and doff for 2 years. The guy told me the guy really loves me personally, but he disappears on a regular basis. We see him for a couple times, right after which he is gone for two to 3 months. He was married for 30 years and it has three youngsters (just like me personally) and states he has commitment problems and it is witnessing a therapist regarding it. His wife cheated on him and he features medication and alcoholic drinks issues.

Ought I consider this man to get poisonous? If he contacts myself once again (which I suspect he will probably), ought I make sure he understands to not ever get in touch with me anymore, or should I just acknowledge i love becoming with him but in the morning leaving my options available to day other people?

-Nancy (Ca)

David Wygant’s response:

Should you consider this person toxic?  No.

I would personally consider him becoming a booty call.

That’s all he could be.  He is a booty phone call.

He doesn’t want to dedicate.  He is picking out many excuses, yet somehow he likes to arrive over and trick about.

Whenever men really does that, all he or she is undertaking is utilizing you as a sexual spouse.

Confront him onto it if you like, but men like him can make upwards some sort of tale not to ever end up being cut-off sexually.

Thus move forward and  discover someone who is deserving of you.

The time you have been throwing away thinking about him and being with him is actually time you may be fulfilling an innovative new man.

Benefit from the procedure!